So this might come as a bit of a shock to some and to some it may not, it did to me. I met Mr. Nathan Scott Gubler this fall in beginning September 2009. He had recently returned from his mission, Richmond, VA (yes, he is a young one, it looks as though I have robbed the cradle, other's just simply call me a cougar). I recently had moved from New York City to start my Hellish job (yes, because it so, working with the hardest kids in Vegas, what else would you expect?). He was assigned to be my roommies and I hometeacher. He was super cute and super nice, we all thought he was a doll, but just never thought anything further than that due to his age. Well as the beginning months of my life unveiled in Vegas, it was rough transition to say the least. So it led me to weekend get aways to LaVerkin. So I never became huber social or involved in the ward. After my Christmas vacation, on the Lichfield's "singles" cruise. I had a lot of soul searching, and in that it was to get more involved in my ward and to make more of an effort to attend my ward regularly. I also read a profound book, " A Single Voice" by Sister Kristen Oaks (my buddy Joe's aunt), the book inspired me to not hold back in living my dreams just because I was single. So I too decided to take the plunge and invest in the rocky real estate, but hey Vegas is a buyer's market. So literally the night I had just seen the house I now live in, and knew it was the house I wanted (put a bid in it next day, and was in contract that week) My mom say a cute little Elementary school and said, "Lyndee, that is where your children could go to school." I kind of rolled my eyes and was like," Mom, let's don't get ahead of yourself." type thing, really surrendering that I was going to embrace being a new single cat/house lady... whatever they call it these days, a spinster, and I really was at an okay with it. Few minutes after that I had received a new voice mail message, I had lost reception, that is why I didn't see the phone call. And it was from my home teacher, Nathan Gubler, granted this was on a Saturday night and I thought it was totally random he called me, because I didn't really have a connection or friendship, merely an acquaintance that he was my home teacher. And then I thought, Oh no, I am being patronized, I am on the inactive list and he's doing a reaching out call. I didn't call him back, because I didn't have his number and just brushed it off, figured I would see him tomorrow at church and let him know I am alive and well. So I simply saw him at church with my roommates and we planned to meet the following week. Well that following week, they decided to meet earlier than later and I was quite bothered because I was in LaVerkin that weekend (of course), and didn't want to bail out early. But there was something compelling me to return home for the home teachers, maybe because I felt bad I have been inactive, or non-responsive, or to follow my new goal to attend my church duties, or maybe because the lord had a grander plan. Whatever my thinking was, I followed the spirt, which I am grateful for to this day.
When returning home, I was late (of course) Nathan was talking to my roommates (who both happen to be very giddy and talkative ladies, so I tend to be more reserved around them). He was talking to them about their love lives, one was engaged and the other dating a guy. So when I came in, he asked if I was dating anyone (don't we all love that question). I simply and proudly said, No but I did buy a house, that is my most recent relationship. So then he proceed to ask what kind of guys I like and maybe he could hook me up. I took him seriously and he told me, he almost thought his cousin would be a match. Thinking nothing of it, he followed up his lesson with "Is there anything I can do for you?" So I then asked if he had a truck and could help me pick up a futon at Costco for my new house. He agreed and tried to pin put the exact details then and there, I told him I am kind of a free spirit, so let's tentatively plan for Friday, but I would text him (so me). He then picked me up and we so happened to hit it off, mainly because I didn't think of him as a prospect and was totally my spunky self. I had a hard time wrapping my head around him only being 22, but we connected really well, he was so impressive with his direction and motivation in life, and was laid back and chill as well. He then took the iniative and asked me to a Fireside right after, I was impressed he dared ask such an older woman out, but that was one of his attractive qualities, is he knows what he wants and doesn't hold back in going for it. Needless to say the rest is history, I become more than just a home teachee "charity case" he helped me move, put up pictures, we took a spontaneous trip to LaVerkin, then went to California, Brian head and so forth. Things just blossomed and progressed so quickly. When it's right, it's right. It all had to do with timing and the lord preparing me to be ready to take this step, before he presented me with the guy. So has may have said, 'if you build it he will come," aka me buying the house. I just love the irony of when I really had come to terms with embracing being single, it came out of nowhere with someone I would least expect, and I am glad I was in tune enough to be open about the age difference, for I would surely have missed out on a great guy and wonderful, fun and loving relationship.
So that's the story, after we were dating for two and half months, we started talking about marriage, and looked at rings, he asked for both of my parents permission. He then surprised me at my parents pond on a weekend we were apart, and had my favorite music playing, David Lanz, with a table with a candle light, champaign glasses and sparkling cider and my favorite dessert, hot lava chocolate molten cake from Chiles, and a big gallon of my favorite ice cream mint chocolate chip, so thoughtful and sweet. He then got down on one knee and asked If I would marry him. I got excited and said yes and impulsively picked up the ring and put it on my finger. I didn't realize I had, so many years of being independent I guess, he later told me.
So there you have it, kind of random and unexpected, but like my roommate recently said, what else would expect from me :)
So here are the details-
We are getting married Saturday June 19, 2010 in the San Diego Temple. Having a reception in LaVerkin on June 26th, 2010 and an Open House in SLC on July 10th. Hope you can attend, email me your address so I can put you on the invite list lyndeemaud@gmail.com